• Are you afraid that your relationship isn’t working out?
• Do you have the same fight over and over again?
• Do you live with very little interaction or connection with your partner, no matter how hard you try?
• Do you wish that you could tell your partner how you are really feeling?
  

The good news is that your relationship does not have to be like this. I know that a rich satisfying life is all about our relationships. When an intimate relationship is not working, it is incredibly painful.

Unfortunately, both men and women tend to tolerate the “disconnect” and have unexpressed feelings, unmet needs, and miscommunication in the most intimate relationships. We ignore or avoid the discomfort until it becomes the status quo because most of us are afraid that if we tell the truth about what is going on, the romantic relationship will end.

Effective counseling can help you tell the truth about what you need and want in order to create a more satisfying connected relationship. It can get you out of the dilemma of trying to fix your problems and ending up with the same results. Counseling creates a safe environment to feel heard and understood while drawing on your strengths to create a better relationship. You can feel that you truly matter to your loved one.

While it may be preferable to work with the couple together, your partner may not be ready or willing to participate. If your partner does not want to come in, we can work on an individual basis to create tools, support and understanding, which can still bring about improvement for the relationship. It is possible to get more of what you want even if we work one-on-one.

Your relationships are valuable and worth your effort, and I would like to help you have an intimate connected satisfying relationship.

I want to help you feel more appreciated and get “in sync” again. Counseling can stop the game playing and harsh words as well as end the isolation. Let’s figure out how to make your relationship work for you.

You don’t have to go another day feeling like you are alone. I want to help you experience the feeling that you are loved and that you matter. Please give me a call and let’s talk about what is going on in your relationship. You can reach me at 949.922.7800.